Sunday, 18 January 2015

A Privilege

I love being a woman and perhaps one of the best part of being one is being friends with other women. This bond we share is irreplaceable by any other relationship. How do I describe this unique bond?

I was reminded of it's beauty today when I came across an exquisitely designed hand made envelope. I don't know what it held inside, I believe it contains a personal note or something else. I know that I should bot have touched it but its sheer beauty made me pick it up and admire it for some moments! I was mightily pleased and my heart went "awww" when I thought of the bond between the two women. I could feel the warmth and tenderness. I smiled a thankful smile to our Creator, joy stirred up within me.

I read somewhere that the kindness women show are an extension of the love they received as little girl from their daddies. I don't know how far this is true. But I do know that being loved as a little girl surely goes a long way in giving you confidence to love others as a woman. Loving is a risk and no one knows it better than a woman. She loves without expecting anything in return. I guess that a mistake men commonly make is thinking a woman who showers affection on him necessarily likes him or expects something from him in that special way. Women is braver in loving, there's no denying that.

And the love they share among themselves is a different category altogether! Whether it be some small talk over tea, just braiding each other's hair, helping in picking our a dress, sharing recipes, etc. they express love in  marvelous ways!

Where would I be without my girlfriends? I revel in their company....thank You Father for your lovely daughters which includes me! :)


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